While physical attraction, what we say as “love at first sight,” can create an intense initial spark I guess but it tends to fade quickly often after just a few intimate encounters. For a sustained connection, u have to synchronise emotionally, psychologically n mentally..can v say spiritually?
Yup, Kiran. That's kinda what I mentioned in my brief. My brief states that the "initial spark" is only the first step as a hook. Over time when two persons form deeper connections, physical attraction becomes less important and the sense of "similarity" and "familiarity" - which is what you refer to as the "spiritual" attribute - will play a bigger role to maintain the attraction between the pair... That's why my brief talks about physical attraction in the first section, then addresses the "similarity" effect in the second section, and explores the totally of science of attraction - which includes the "familiarity" effect - in the final section...
I always believe if u luv someone luv them twice..first phase is all abt infatuation when everything feels exciting and new, while…in second phase u hav to luv with imperfections
Like the old saying 'like is because; love is despite': we like people who attract us at first; and embracing someone's imperfections while still sustaining the connection with them represents love. This is why 'love is despite'
Luv is comfort.. lyk wen I see him or think about him I smile I feel he is there, who aligns with our trust, we will feel safe with them.. whenever lyf pushes us back we think atleast v hav Some one who will listen n understand I guess.. its not physical to sum extant but it is
While physical attraction, what we say as “love at first sight,” can create an intense initial spark I guess but it tends to fade quickly often after just a few intimate encounters. For a sustained connection, u have to synchronise emotionally, psychologically n mentally..can v say spiritually?
Yup, Kiran. That's kinda what I mentioned in my brief. My brief states that the "initial spark" is only the first step as a hook. Over time when two persons form deeper connections, physical attraction becomes less important and the sense of "similarity" and "familiarity" - which is what you refer to as the "spiritual" attribute - will play a bigger role to maintain the attraction between the pair... That's why my brief talks about physical attraction in the first section, then addresses the "similarity" effect in the second section, and explores the totally of science of attraction - which includes the "familiarity" effect - in the final section...
I always believe if u luv someone luv them twice..first phase is all abt infatuation when everything feels exciting and new, while…in second phase u hav to luv with imperfections
Like the old saying 'like is because; love is despite': we like people who attract us at first; and embracing someone's imperfections while still sustaining the connection with them represents love. This is why 'love is despite'
Luv is comfort.. lyk wen I see him or think about him I smile I feel he is there, who aligns with our trust, we will feel safe with them.. whenever lyf pushes us back we think atleast v hav Some one who will listen n understand I guess.. its not physical to sum extant but it is